Are you vying for the
attention of your college hottie or that handsome suit-clad gentleman at
work or the guy you often bump into at your favourite coffee shop? Have
you already started imagining a rosy future with him but don't know to
approach him. We tell you how to get the man of your dreams in just 7
days.
Day 1: Exchanging glances
Making eye contact is the key here.
The way you look at a person says a lot about your affiliation towards
them. He'll get the hint that you're interested in him. But, do NOT
stare or bump into him everywhere. You don't have to show serious
stalking tendencies; else, he'll run away as far as he can.
Day 2: Introduce yourself
Today try initiating a little
conversation with him. He would already have a faint idea that you're
interested in him but he needs a confirmation before he would think of
making the first move. Make a small remark when you see him around and
then go ahead and introduce yourself. You really need to strike an
interesting conversation with him that would make him remember you for
who you are.
Day 3: Sustain his interest
If
you managed to strike a chord the previous day, he might in all
likelihood approach you today. This would also give you an impression
whether or not he's actually interested in you. But, you have just
caught his attention but you need to sustain his interest. Don't
hesitate if he asks you to join him for lunch or coffee. Just accept it.
While actually having a conversation with him for the first time, ask
leading questions and listen well to his responses.
Day 4: Passive stalking
It is alright to send him a friend
request on Facebook today. You never know by now he may already have
sent you one. So get set to do some research on his likes, interests,
his social circle etc. This would give you leads for next conversation,
but please refrain from liking or commenting on any of his old posts or
asking him directly about any of the posts he has made in the past.
Day 5: Send an event invite
Now, that you're well versed with
his interests, find out what's happening in the city in line with his
interests and then send a group message to a bunch of your friends
including him asking if you can work a plan of going to the
play/exhibition/concert together. At the event, just don't drool over or
ignore him completely. However, pay him just enough attention to keep
his interest in you going.
Day 6: Let him chase you
You have done enough work. Now, it's
time to reap the fruits of your hardwork. Wait for his call or text. Do
not send a text yourself and don't even reply promptly to his text.
People want what they can't have - it's human psychology. Thus,
remaining out of reach a little and making him realize that he's still
got some work to do will only add to your advantage.
Day 7: When he actually asks you out...
The time has come when
he'll ask you out officially on your first date. It's completely normal
to have butterflies fluttering furiously in your stomach, but you need
to take it easy for your own good